Sunday, February 12, 2012

Dads and their Daughters

Last night Rich and I were talking about the fact that we have a little girl (as opposed to a boy.... or an alien or something).  He said something kind of interesting: "I think a man always imagines himself with a little boy -- fishing, playing ball.  But now that I have a girl, it's so cool because I WAS a boy."

Ummm....Yes - another obvious observation.

"No, I mean I know what it's like to grow up as a boy.  Now I get to find out what it's like to be a girl growing up because I get to raise one." True.  Never thought about it that way.  Is that how I would feel about raising a boy?

As I write this, Rich is chasing Annessa around in his wheelchair, shooting her in the butt with a rubber band gun as she pretends to be scared. "You missed me, you missed me!" she taunts.

I tell ya.

Anyway - when I see him with her, I see a playfulness.  A tenderness and a protectiveness.  I see pure, pure love.  I me?  I feel lucky just to be able to watch it unfold. 

"I will have you wrapped around my finger in no time.  Watch out!"